Millions of people are currently using the law of attraction to produce the ideal mate, create a meaningful job, build wealth, and attract health for themselves. However, the future of our world rests not on who can create the most wealth, but on how our children embrace the responsibility of creating a better world. Teaching the law of attraction is as a vital addition to the life skills every child needs in order to grow and evolve into who and what they want to be.

To that end we offer the following guidelines to consider when teaching the law of attraction to the important children in your life. Read the rest »

If your family is anything like mine the price increase at the pump is a big factor in your day to day life. In the past few years we have seen the gas price jump from 99 cents a gallon to over $3.50 with no end in sight. I am frustrated, unnerved and annoyed! What is a person to do?

I have a proposal for others in the same predicament; get more organized!! Yes, you can gain some of the control back, and the savings will add up! Here are some suggestions: Read the rest »

I am often asked, “What store has the best deals?” The answer is that no one store has ALL the best prices. Some stores have consistently low regular prices on their generic products and some stores have even lower sale prices on name brand items. When you factor in coupons, especially those that may be doubled, your savings potential is even greater. Whether you are a couponer or not, you can still take advantage of good sales and loss leaders, and save more of your grocery money by shopping at more than one store each week.

Loss leaders are the items that stores mark down considerably to entice you into their store. They may actually lose money on these items, but they expect you to buy enough additional items to make up for the loss leaders. Your goal as a smart spender is to go in, buy the loss leaders (and only the loss leaders) and get out.

Most communities offer a number of different locations where you can purchase food and non-food staples. Although specific store chains vary from state to state, the concept of store types remains the same. Knowing what types of stores are available will help you increase your buying power.

Locations for purchasing food and non-food staples fall into eight basic categories:

Grocery Stores – Grocery stores are the traditional place to buy most groceries. If you target sales (especially Buy One Get One Free sales) and use coupons with those items on sale, you will find fabulous deals. Those deals are even better if your grocery store doubles coupons. I buy the majority of my food from grocery stores, shopping the sales from week to week. My willingness to shop Grocery Store A this week (because they offer the best sales on the items I need) and Grocery Store B next week saves me significant amounts of money. Since I drive by both stores each week on the way to other activities, I am not wasting gas making extra trips to lots of different stores.

Drug Stores – Drug stores, including CVS, Rite-Aid and Walgreens, are excellent places to stock up on deeply discounted bath and beauty items. Take advantage of the many rebate and reward programs drug stores offer and you will find that you never pay full price for toothpaste, deodorant, razors, shampoo, aspirin and cough medicine. Often, these items will be free after rebate. See the “Fabulous Drug Store Deals” article at http://www.cleverparents.com/2007/08/16/smart-spending-fabulous-drug-store-deals/ for all the details.

Warehouse Clubs – Warehouse clubs can offer good buys on some items. The key is to exercise extreme willpower and diligence when you are shopping. Just because the store sells a 400 ounce bottle of laundry detergent or a 10 pack of peanut butter, it doesn’t mean that they are selling it at a low price. I actually stay away from warehouse clubs because I have a number of grocery stores in my area that offer great sales and doubled coupons every day of the week. Good sales coupled with doubled coupons results in greater savings than I could get at warehouse stores. When shopping at a warehouse club, keep in mind that it is very tempting to buy all the convenient, frozen prepared items and giant sized boxes of everything. These purchases do not save you money if you can make the dishes yourself for less or if you use coupons combined with sales for better-priced packages at the grocery store. Remember to take into account the annual fee for shopping at warehouse clubs when you are determining whether to shop at these stores.

When in doubt, figure out the cost per unit of the products you buy to determine if the warehouse club has a better deal. To figure cost per unit, take the price of the item divided by the size of the item = cost per unit. A $3.99 box of 14 ounce cereal is 28 cents per ounce ($3.99 divided by 14 = .28). If the grocery store has that same box of cereal on sale Buy One Get One Free for $1.99 per box, you will only pay 14 cents per ounce. If you have a 50-cent coupon that is doubled, your cost is lowered to 7 cents per ounce, a 75% savings over the warehouse club price.

Mass Merchandisers – Many mass merchandisers like Wal-mart and Target offer good, low cost generic and name brand options. They accept manufacturer’s coupons at face value which helps lower the prices of name brand products. If you don’t have any grocery stores that double coupons in your area, you will find some good buys at the big box stores. Because of the all the great deals I find at drug stores and grocery stores that double coupons, I don’t often shop the mass merchandisers for groceries. When I do shop these stores, it is mainly for loss leaders and non-food items.

Health Food Stores – Stores including Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s are popular for those wanting healthy food choices. Many health food stores offer organic produce and other eco-friendly products at a premium price. Not all health food stores are created equal, though. Some, like Trader Joe’s, offers great tasting organic produce and store brand products at a much lower price than many of the other health food stores. Keep in mind that many traditional grocery stores are now carrying organic produce at excellent prices as well. Not only is it important to be good stewards of our planet, it is also important to be good stewards of our own money by not overspending at high priced health food stores.

Dollar-Type Stores – Some dollar stores offer very good buys on name brand items you know. You aren’t going to find fresh produce but dollar stores do offer some bargains on packaged foods, cleaning and bath and beauty products. Many dollar stores don’t accept manufacturer’s coupons but some actually do accept them. .

Convenience Stores – Convenience stores are generally not a good place to buy food. They are usually overpriced and it is best to avoid buying your groceries at the local gas station. There are times when gas stations use milk or 12-packs of canned soft drinks as a loss leaders to get you to buy gas and other items. If they are truly offering a great buy, enjoy your good deal and don’t be tempted to buy other overpriced items while there.

Farmer’s Markets/Roadside Stands – I love our local roadside produce stands. Here in North Carolina, the summers are rich with beautiful produce and the local farmers offer delicious, fresh-picked choices. There is nothing like a fresh tomato and cucumber sandwich made with produce picked that day. For those items I don’t grow in my own garden (of course I grow my own cukes and tomatoes!), I depend on my local produce stands. Here in NC, we have Certified Roadside Stands with produce grown by the operator and other local farmers. For more information and a list of NC certified stands, see http://www.ncfarmfresh.com/CertifiedStands.asp . Your state may have a similar program so check out your state’s Department of Agriculture website. These roadside stands not only offer delicious food, they are often at a better price than you will find at the grocery store. While the grocery store may be selling tomatoes for $1.99 per pound during the summer, my local produce stand has them for .99 per pound.
You may be thinking that with the price of gas these days, it isn’t cost effective to drive farther to shop at another store. Although this may be true if you are picking up only one or two items, it is not the case if a store is offering great sale prices on many items or if a store is doubling or tripling coupons. Keep in mind that you may be able to save $30.00 or more during a good sale, which is certainly worth the $3.00 you may spend in gas to get there and back. Bring a friend and share the fuel expense as you take advantage of the excellent buys and loss leaders. Try to incorporate many errands into one trip to reduce multiple trips and save gas.
I usually shop at one grocery store and one drug store each week. Many weeks I will also make another trip to a different grocery store to pick up their loss leaders. Those trips are quick and easy and are made while on the way to other activities, so I am not making a special trip.

Shopping the sales at more than one store may seem like a lot of work, but with careful planning, you can be in and out of most stores in very little time. If you can shave $50.00 or more off your grocery bill each week, you may find that an extra stop here and there is more than worth your while. As I always say: It’s your money – spend it wisely!

Throughout this month, I have been giving you tips on what to do with all your paper clutter, but now we need to work on how not to let clutter build up in the first place. First you need to see where you find paper clutter accumulating. Next, determine what papers consists of this clutter.

For me, I found that the clutter was mostly my children’s school papers. What works best is I have a basket on top of the refrigerator to put papers that I don’t want to throw away. Every month I go through this basket and toss some but the rest I add to the lidded hanging file containers that I have for each child. Inside this container I have large hanging files, one for each year, and I place art and school projects inside. I wish I could keep every paper/project that my children ever touch, but I don’t want my good intentions to become their clutter down the road. Instead, I have a great representation of each year of their lives. Read the rest »

earthThis week, the Clever Parents Blog Roundup is all about being green. Use these ten easy green tips from Boston Mamas to cultivate your family’s awareness about the earth and its limited resources. Take this green poll and tell the Moms Buzz what you do to stay green at home. Green your shopping with The Find Green, a search engine that One Chic Mama writes about this week. Read the rest »

momsLast Friday, I boarded a plane with Charles in tow and headed for Orlando. A few weeks ago, I was invited (along with 15 other mom bloggers) to attend an expense paid trip to Disney World. Disney’s goal in hosting this event was to bring together “popular mom bloggers” and begin a dialogue that allows them to understand and support what mom bloggers do. Read the rest »

This month we have been working in the area I refer to as the home office, but is actually the area where you store your paperwork; whether it is an actual office in your home, a desk in your family room, or simply a cabinet in your kitchen. I realize what an overwhelming task this can be, but need to stress how very important this is to your family. If you have questions, please contact your tax professional or attorney.

Last week we worked on the large filling drawer to keep important papers. These papers, although quite important, are not as imperative as the items I am going to ask you to keep in your smaller folio. Once completed this smaller folio will contain everything you need in case of an emergency. In addition, it is extremely important to instruct your family members as to where this folio is in case you are unable to get it. I suggest purchasing a fire box to keep these items: Read the rest »